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I hope everyone who celebrates Christmas had a wonderful holiday and that everyone else had a stellar weekend. It seems I made the Nice list. I never know until Christmas morning.😉

I received not 1, but 2 signed books to add to my collection. I got some cat socks because I’m a cat lover with no cat paraphernalia. I also received a new Apple Watch and an Apple home pod. I want to create stereo surround sound on our main tv using the home pods, so Santa got one for me to try before more come my way. My husband got me a very cool canvas created from the beginning of each scene of a movie. He chose my favorite movie, How to Lose A Guy in 10 Days. I love it!

On a more serious note, we’ve been trying to figure out how to best support my mother-in-law, who is newly widowed and lives 600 miles away. My husband (her son) is the only family she has left; yet, she is very determined, at 80, to live by herself in the same house in Maryland she has lived in since my husband was young. We had her down for the last few weeks, but she flies back tomorrow. She is technologically challenged to a scary degree – I mean, really scary. In this world, not being able to do even the basics with confidence is a problem. But that’s where we are at. If only Santa had left a little Christmas magic to help us figure out how to navigate this new stage we are entering as we learn to respect her wishes even though they make our lives much more stressful.
In blog news, Lily, who has been doing a Saturday post for the last few weeks, needs to stop to keep up with the demands of the end of her senior year of high school and transition to college. Her last review will be posted this Saturday, New Year’s Day!

from NetGalley




I just love Emily in Paris, so I was quick to binge-watch season 2 when I received the notification that it had dropped.

- Tuesday, December 21: Book Review of The Perfect Escape by Leah Konen (☀️☀️☀️☀️ – Psychological Thriller)
- Wednesday, December 22: WWW Wednesday
- Thursday, December 23: Book Review of The House Fire by Rosie Walker (☀️☀️☀️☀️ – Psychological Thriller)
- Friday, December 24: Book Blogger Hop
- Saturday, December 25: Christmas memes

- Monday, December 27: Sunday Post on Monday (just this week)
- Tuesday, December 28: Book Review of The Sorority Murder by Allison Brennan (☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️ – Mystery Thriller)
- Wednesday, December 29: WWW Wednesday
- Thursday, December 30: Book Review of Reckless Girls by Rachel Hawkins (☀️☀️☀️☀️ – Psychological Thriller)
- Friday, December 31: Book Blogger Hop
- Saturday, January 1: Under Lily’s Umbrella’s last post: Book Review on Dracula by Bram Stoker

Is there a social services group that can pop in for a chat, or to help with little jobs, each day – this is what we did with my father (the expense was worth our peace of mind). With her permission install a camera somewhere she frequently goes, but is not intrusive – like by the stairs, telephone, so that you can see that she is ok. My father was happy to wear his “emergency call button” pendant which he could press if he needed help. It went to a call centre which was manned 24 hours a day, and had the number of neighbours etc who they could ring if necessary. Set up a rota of people who take it in turns to telephone each day. With everything we had to term it as being for us – as my father definitely did not feel he needed to be worried about! Good luck.
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Thank you for all the wonderful pointers from your own experience. I was hoping someone would have some because we don’t even have experience through our families to learn how to handle things, as my family lives within a 10 mile radius of each other (I’m the only one who went away) and my husband’s family – well, they put his grandfather in a home when his grandmother passed and we knew that wasn’t an option. Your ideas will definitely help us. Thank you! 🤗
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Those ere wonderful gifts. It must be hard to live alone at 80 but I can see your mother-in-law’s point. I also wouldn’t like live anywhere else when I reach that age. There are lots of memories in the house we have lived all our life. I hope she learn to use technology soon to make it less stressful for you guys.
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We totally understand why she would want to stay in her home and we told her that and that if she changes her mind, she is always welcome to stay with or near us – whichever she prefers. It’s going to be a whopper of a life lesson figuring this all out. ❤️
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You must’ve been good, that’s a brilliant Santa haul! Now on the countdown to 22, let’s hope its a fab year ❤
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Fingers-crossed 🤞🤞🤞
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Glad you had a lovely Christmas & great gifts💕
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Thank you! It’s so nice to share the day with family ❤️
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So pleased you enjoyed a lovely Christmas with your family and that you were spoilt rotten with your presents. 😊 I also got cat socks! 😻 You, your husband and your mother-in-law will be in my prayers, as to what is best to be done for you all. 🙏
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Thank you, Jessica! Wear those cat socks proudly. I know I am 🤗
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Sounds like you had a wonderful Christmas, Tessa! That canvas is something I haven’t heard of, but I think I’ll look into it for gift ideas. With your MIL, we dealt with similar issues a few years ago, and it’s stressful for everyone. Sometimes hard topics have to be dealt with head-on. Have a great week!
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That canvas is very cool. I love that they made it from actual movie scenes.
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It sounds like you had a wonderful Christmas, Tessa. I do hope things work out with your mother-in-law. We are in the same situation with my husband’s mother who is 90 and living alone, but she is only 15 miles away, not 600! She too knows nothing about technology, but we also have multiple family members checking in on her every day of the month, each month.
As far as reading I have been devouring a ton of fiction based on the Old Testament. I’ll be switching back to my psychological thrillers soon (I keep purchasing more, LOL). I’m going to have my best reading year ever for my Goodreads challenge. I’ll probably post a looking back/looking ahead post in 2022.
Happy almost New Year!
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I bet fiction based on the Old Testament is interesting. I can see where it could be, anyway. Congrats on your reading year! ❤️
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It sounds like you had a great Christmas Tessa. I can only imagine what you and your husband are going through, that worry can be difficult. Someone recently said something to me about my words. I have been trying to convince my sister “to put her husband in a nursing home” as he has advanced dementia. She suggested I say instead, “You need to let him go somewhere where he can get the best care”. So what I am saying here is when you talk to your MIL, perhaps use different words, like “we want to help you stay safe” or similar. I really like Emma’s suggestions, but you still need to convince her to let your husband implement plans. Good luck, Tessa.
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That’s where my counseling training will come in handy. It’s all about choosing words that empower people to change. I agree that word choice matters. ❤️
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You are lucky to have that background, Tessa. It will definitely help.
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Glad to hear you had a lovely Christmas, and that you made it onto the nice list and got some great gifts!! ❤❤
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Right? I hate when I find myself on the naughty list 😈
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Lol, I made onto the nice list too lol. 😉😁
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I’m so glad you had a great Christmas. I haven’t watched Emily in Paris, but it sure looks good!
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So good to hear you had a great Christmas – I love the canvas. My MIL thankfully only lives a half-hour drive away, so can be with her fairly quickly if there is a problem. I really feel for you, it can’t be easy having that constant concern in the back of your mind. My MIL is also bad with technology so is constantly disconnecting her phone and TV from the internet, trying to talk her through reconnecting them is an absolute nightmare and we often have to go around and do it for her.
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I can totally see that happening! Technology is so integrated into everything we do that it adds an extra layer of stress for everyone in these situations.
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Awesome gifts, Tessa! Glad you had a good Christmas. I hope everything works out with your MIL and you can convince her. That’s a tricky situation to be in. Good luck with everything and have a Happy New Year if we don’t talk. ❤
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Happy New Years to you too!
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